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How we score

The same standard, applied to all 19 apps in the index

The rule everything else follows

Rankings are never sold. We may earn affiliate commissions when you sign up through our links — that revenue never buys a better score, a higher position, or a softer review. Several apps in our index have no affiliate program at all; they are ranked identically.

How we evaluate

Every app in the index is scored on the same six axes below, using a combination of hands-on testing, first-hand pricing and feature verification, and aggregated reports from real users. Applying one fixed rubric to every app is what makes the scores comparable across the index, rather than impressions from different experiences.

We’re expanding first-hand testing across the whole index. Each review shows when it was last updated, and hands-on notes are added as we complete them — so you can always see how fresh a verdict is.

Six scoring axes

AxisWhat we measure
ConversationCoherence, memory within a session, how the model handles non-linear, emotional and long conversations.
ImagesGeneration quality, consistency of the same character across images, speed, and content flexibility.
MemoryWhat the companion remembers next day, next week — names, facts, running jokes, relationship history.
Voice & mediaVoice realism and latency, video features where offered.
ValueWhat the free tier honestly gives you, real monthly cost, token/upsell traps.
PrivacyData handling clarity, billing discretion, account anonymity, breach history.

Monthly re-verification

These apps change fast — prices move, features ship, filters tighten. Every page shows a “last updated” date, and we re-check pricing and headline features monthly. If a page is stale, that date will tell you.

Corrections

Spotted something wrong or outdated? Write to hello@theconfidante.ai — verified corrections are applied to the live page, usually within days.

See the results

The full index — every app, scored on the same standard.

See the Index →